Dianna is one of the most classy, professional women you will ever meet. I was part of her regional staff for several years and learned a lot about personal presentation and business management by observing her both in the office and on the road.
One of our trips took us to North Carolina to conduct focus groups and complete training at a call center recently added to our team. After a morning filled with introductions and general “get to know you” conversation, we set off with the center manager to have lunch at a highly recommended locals joint.
The scenery was amazing. Originally from the Northwest and now living in Las Vegas, I missed the green hills and softly clouded skies that I grew up with. But here and now I was able to relax in the backseat and just watch the changing landscape slip passed filled with textures and tones so amazingly familiar.
There was a convivial flow of conversation from the front of the car, the kind of general chat that would normally precede a casual meal. Until, Dianna shouted.
I was jolted out of my reverie and the driver started laughing. The reason for this sudden spike in energy?
A possum. More specifically, a dead possum laying along the side of the road.
“Turn around – let’s get a picture with it!” Dianna was laughing as she said it but taking the dare, the driver turned the car around and headed back.
I knew our driver was really just poking at Dianna’s reserved, crisp exterior. What the driver didn’t know was that like me, Dianna had grown up in the Northwest. Beneath that neatly pressed suit was a farm girl. The dare the driver was about to issue was going to fail.
We returned to the possum and Dianna popped out of the car handing me the camera. And yes I took pictures but not just of a possum. I took pictures of Dianna picking it up by the tail and smiling broadly as she held it up for all to see.
The pictures were more for her grand kids than anything else but definitely brought about a broad giggle from everyone who saw them.
The moral of this story is not just “you can’t judge a book by it’s cover”. It’s also “to thine own self be true”. One genuine moment on the side of the road did more to break the ice with a cautious group of employees than any number of proper speeches ever could.
And those photo’s? Well this was in the olden days before every cell phone could capture an image and those shots were made with a not so old fashioned stand alone digital camera. I don’t know where they went to but am pretty sure that somewhere in her family photo albums there is at least one picture of Dianna in a fuchsia colored jacket, floral blouse and pencil skirt, standing along a ditch in the green green fields of North Carolina holding a quite dead but not gross possum by the tail. Somewhere in the family albums that is and, apparently, burnt into my mind as well.